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Always thinking about each and everyone of you
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 To my wonderful Heroes of Healing Family,I must apologize for not being active in discussions over the past few months. I have been following and reading all of your inspirational and wonderful…Continue

Started this discussion. Last reply by Stacie Cavallaro Feb 27, 2011.

breathing exercises can help
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hi everyone i just wanted to share with you something that i have been doing to mange my fibro pain a bit better. back in june i saw my rhum. doctor for the last time. as he has retired. i asked him…Continue

Started this discussion. Last reply by paul gileno Nov 1, 2010.

IF PAIN HAD A NAME WHAT WOULD IT BE AND WHY?
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Hello everyone, Hope all is well and everyone is doing OK. Nicole had posted this question several months ago and it was so wonderful to see the responses. Since this was first posted we have had the…Continue

Started this discussion. Last reply by paul gileno Jul 18, 2010.

HOW A JOURNAL CAN SAVE YOUR LIFE FROM GRIEF!!
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As you all know, I suffer from pain on a daily basis as I am sure everyone of us does. I noticed that my self esteem had gone way down each year I didnt get better.  I can see it now more then ever…Continue

Started this discussion. Last reply by paul gileno Jun 19, 2010.

 

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Cathy Porter commented on paul gileno's blog post 8 Years since life changed
"wow  Thank you Paul for sharing such a deep and personal letter.  It is so meaningful to all of us who share what life is and isn't with chronic pain.   "
May 4, 2011
Nicole Hemmenway commented on paul gileno's blog post 8 Years since life changed
"Well said Mr Burns, I could not agree with your sentiments more!"
May 2, 2011
paul gileno commented on paul gileno's blog post 8 Years since life changed
"This means the world to me coming from you and thank you for everything you do and have done."
May 1, 2011
Charlie Burns commented on paul gileno's blog post 8 Years since life changed
"Paul The day you began looking at life from a different viewpoint was also the day you began to change other people's viewpoints. Always know, you're making a difference. Happy Anniversary!"
May 1, 2011
paul gileno posted a blog post

8 Years since life changed

Hello my dear friends, I wanted to share something with all of you that is deeply personal and emotional but at the same time true to who I am and how I find strength and my inner spirit. Yesterday April 30th, was exactly 8 years ago since my life was changed. It was the same kind of weather and the same smell in the air, it was the day I snapped my spine which was the start of this journey. I say my life has changed and I do not say my life was "turned upside down" or "it was devastated". I…See More
May 1, 2011
Lisa Avery left a comment for paul gileno
"Hi Paul, sorry it took so long to get on here and accept you as a friend.  I would really like to get on here more often.  Hope you are well.  Lisa"
Apr 4, 2011
paul gileno replied to Nicole Hemmenway's discussion I believe.
"Hey Vern, I have to say your words are extremely strong and so appreciated. You might not see it but being able to share what you wrote is actually extremely strong and show an amazing inner strength. The honesty of what you write is amazing. I…"
Mar 14, 2011
paul gileno replied to Nicole Knox's discussion Pain in color, words and images
"I think this is a great idea. My trouble is I never have a solid answer. Depending on the day depends on the color.   Some days I think my pain is Gray. I think Gray because the pain is not enough to say I am in darknessBlack) but it also…"
Mar 9, 2011
Stacie Cavallaro replied to paul gileno's discussion Always thinking about each and everyone of you
"Hello Paul, I have to tell you that I am so thrilled with HoH. Before coming here, I felt so alone and isolated but since joining, I have met some wonderful people, and I have made some close friendships. Nicole is an amazing woman. Through her…"
Feb 27, 2011
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Always thinking about each and everyone of you

 To my wonderful Heroes of Healing Family,I must apologize for not being active in discussions over the past few months. I have been following and reading all of your inspirational and wonderful posts and I am so proud of each and everyone one of you. I want to thank all of you for being so amazing and strong. Heroes is a safe and wonderful place for all of us in the pain community. Nicole is amazing and has helped me so much on my pain journey. I wanted to share this quote with everyone: "I…See More
Feb 27, 2011
paul gileno posted a discussion

Always thinking about each and everyone of you

 To my wonderful Heroes of Healing Family,I must apologize for not being active in discussions over the past few months. I have been following and reading all of your inspirational and wonderful posts and I am so proud of each and everyone one of you. I want to thank all of you for being so amazing and strong. Heroes is a safe and wonderful place for all of us in the pain community. Nicole is amazing and has helped me so much on my pain journey. I wanted to share this quote with everyone: "I…See More
Feb 27, 2011
Cyndi McKnight replied to paul gileno's discussion Unconditional Love in the group Friends of Furry Creatures :)
"Thanks Paul for the great quotes!!!  I know when I am in a great deal of pain, one of my only comforts is slowly stroking the fur of one of my cats.  I find doing that very soothing.  There truly is nothing like the unconditional love…"
Feb 26, 2011
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"   I am so sorry it has taken me so long to welcome you. We are so happy you joined us here. We want you to know we are all in this together, and we will be stronger together. Thank you so much for being a part of our healing journey, we…"
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"   I am so sorry it has taken me so long to welcome you. We are so happy you joined us here. We want you to know we are all in this together, and we will be stronger together. Thank you so much for being a part of our healing journey, we…"
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8 Years since life changed

Hello my dear friends,

I wanted to share something with all of you that is deeply personal and emotional but at the same time true to who I am and how I find strength and my inner spirit.

Yesterday April 30th, was exactly 8 years ago since my life was changed. It was the same kind of weather and the same smell in the air, it was the day I snapped my spine which was the start of this journey. I say my life has changed and I do not say my life was "turned upside down" or "it was…

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Posted on May 1, 2011 at 7:22am — 4 Comments

Pain and Activity!

The human body is meant to move. Yet a person who experiences intense, persistent pain will probably move less and less over time. He or she is also likely to develop a number of “pain behaviors” such lying down for long periods, using unusual postures to brace against the pain, or favoring one side of the body over another when moving. After a while, these pain behaviors take on…

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Posted on December 9, 2010 at 9:15am

Life is always fulfilling even with pain!!

I like to start this off by saying a simple phrase; we still have fulfilling lives even in the presence of chronic pain. I say this knowing each and everyone of you have a fulfilling life even if you think you…

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Posted on May 31, 2010 at 5:55am — 5 Comments

Living with Chronic Pain



Too many people have had the experience of recovering from an injury or an operation still experiencing severe pain. They have been assured that they are fully healed and that there is no physical reason for their continuing pain. Yet their experience of pain is very real and debilitating. Such continuous pain lasting longer than six months has only recently been labeled a disease in its own right. It is estimated that the disease of chronic pain afflicts…

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Posted on April 20, 2010 at 4:05pm

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At 6:43am on April 4, 2011, Lisa Avery said…
Hi Paul, sorry it took so long to get on here and accept you as a friend.  I would really like to get on here more often.  Hope you are well.  Lisa
At 9:33am on November 22, 2010, freedom girl said…
Thank you. I do not ue the computer too often due to the condition in my rt hand but I am working on getting speech recognition technology added to my computer which will enable me to bec ome more active and visible. Peace & blessings to you and your family!
At 7:49pm on November 21, 2010, Mary said…
Thank You Paul, for the welcome. I have joined this site to try to find info for my husband. Alan has it in his left shoulder,arm,hand,chest and back, spreading to his right side.
At 9:40am on November 21, 2010, Katherine A. Kelley said…
My new motto for the coming months to help me deal with 'stuff' is "Celebrate Today, Remember Yesterday, Find Fun for the Future" so I remember to plan something to look forward to and not get too bogged down with the pain of pain. In years past I found it helpful to have a motto or mini mission statement to guide my choices of how I spent my time and thinking.
At 2:14pm on November 6, 2010, Julian Phillips said…
I trust that you're having a good weekend and thank you for friended me on this site. look forward to being in touch as we try and kick this invisible issue into high gear.
Thanks Julian
At 7:27pm on November 5, 2010, Darlene Zalutko said…
Paul I sent a message,not sure if you received it! PleaseE-MAil ME UNTIL i GET THE NEW COMPUTER FIGURED OUT.TRYING HARD-TYPING GETTING A BIT WORSE.hope you're feeling well.hope to hear from you soon
Darlene
At 7:13am on November 1, 2010, JAMES C. SEWELL said…
THANKS SO MUCH FOR ALL YOU ARE DOING IN THIS VERY WORTHWHILE ENDEAVOR. I'LL DO WHAT I CAN TO HELP
THANKS FOR BEING THERE
At 7:00am on November 1, 2010, Alli Morgan said…
Thanks Paul. It's good to know that we're all in this together. I'm really looking forward to getting involved! Call or email me anytime to talk more about how I can help. Have a good day -a
At 4:37pm on September 30, 2010, Kristín Arnlaugsdóttir said…
Hi Paul, thank you so much for your lovly comment <3 This is a great site and so good to have you all to talk to, people who know how this terrible pain is and what you are going through... I also look forward to get to know you all !
Hug & Kisses <3
At 8:42am on September 30, 2010, Kerry Hutnick said…
Just wanted to thank you for the email I received from you letting me know about the mass email that was sent to alot of us members from Koya... I have no idea who this person is or what the heck they want from me or the others.. It was really weird though.. of course I looked at my page and could not understand what in God's name he was referring to at all.. please let me know what the results were if you would be so kind.. 0:) thanks and have a happy day...
 
 
 

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